It is Shrove Tuesday the day before Ash Wednesday, but Lent came early for our Dan, Uncle Dan, Fr. Dan. His long suffering of the past year was a hard, prolonged Lent, that has given way to an early Easter, and an eternal moment of resurrection. In fact, Dan’s death-bed experience, surrounded by his family and friends was at once a passion and a resurrection. As he lay dying the family prayed the sorrowful mysteries of Mary’s rosary, commended him to God and all the saints. Then as they prayed the glorious mysteries, he breathed his last as if to give an exclamation point to his belief in the Resurrection. Over Dan’s bed was a cross with a bright light streaming on it. This cross was not of a dying Lord, but the risen Christ who seemed to smile down on Dan and his family as he welcomed him home.
Last night at the wake service we rejoiced in the life of a Passionist priest and a gentle man. We heard stories about him, shed tears at the reading of letters from Ireland, broke into laughter just as Dan would have with his great smile and hearty laugh. How could we not enjoy the Irish connection which began with the indomitable Bridget Connelly and that quiet man Dan Sullivan? But our Dan was his own man. Human beings try to challenge the infinite: ocean, mountains, space. Dan loved all these as if through the cosmic infinities he was brought home to the truly Infinite – God. From Georgia Avenue to the Harris and Rialto movie houses to the little candy store on the corner, Dan reached for the stars.
But our purpose here this morning at the Mass of the Resurrection is not to eulogize Dan, but to look at the most profound meaning in his life and in our lives also – the love we have for Christ. For almost fifty years as a Passionist and forty three years as a priest, Dan sought what we all seek: first, to know the wisdom of God and to do his will; second, to know Christ crucified and risen; and third to yearn to be with God forever thus fulfilling the infallible promises from Christ for those who remain close to him. The readings we have just heard proclaim these truths.
Wisdom 3: 1-9 – The wise man in the reading proclaimed by Sharon tells us that just and wise people are proven like gold in a furnace and become a sacrificial offering to God. The wisdom of God led Dan to religious life after great success in the world. Now the gifts of piercing intelligence, brilliant administrative skills, professional and insightful one-on-one abilities became a great boon to the Church and to the Passionists. All of us are called to be saints and to use our talents under God’s wise guidance. Again from the wise one:
“Because God’s grace and mercy are with his holy ones, and his care is with the elect”
Dan often used a similar reflection from St. Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians (this text is on his memorial card):
“Jews demand signs and Greeks wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified. . .Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God.” (1Corinthians 1:22-24)
Philippians 3:7-10 - Patti read to us from the third chapter of Philippians where St. Paul put it squarely,
“I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus, our Lord. . . I want to know him and the power of the resurrection that I might share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that if possible I may attain the Resurrection from the dead” (Phil. 3:8-11)
I believe Dan had this passage in mind when he gave a homily several years ago in an anointing service for the Felician Sisters in Coraopolis. These are his words:
“Today we turn to our God that we may receive the healing of Jesus in His Spirit, so that we may be prayed over in Jesus’ name, so that we may be forgiven of sin, so that we may be anointed with the Holy Oil. In turn, the sick witness to each of us and show us the marks of Jesus’ Passion in their suffering: the inner pain of emotional and psychic sufferings; the acknowledgement of aging and our passage from one phase of life to another; the anguish of coping with addictive illness; accepting the spiritual discipline to control food, drink and medicine one day at a time; the fixing of our gaze upon the cross as a source for health, sanity and salvation.” (from a homily of Fr. Dan)
John 14:1-7 – The gospel reading turns our hearts and minds to the future, the destiny of us all,
“Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many mansions; if it were not so would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And when I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be.” (John 14:1-3)
These words of Truth himself are intimately connected to another promise of Jesus in the sixth chapter of the same Gospel:
“The one who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him/her up on the last day” (John 6:54)
How many masses did Dan preside over or concelebrate in over 43 years of priesthood? We know how the Lord’s Eucharistic presence gave life to his preaching and strengthened him in his ministry in this Church, the Retreat Center, in Parish missions and retreats, in confession and spiritual direction, in countless visits to hospitals, nursing homes, and to those homebound. Above all, it was the Eucharistic presence that gave him such a profound patience and serene, humble gratitude in his lasts months on earth. He fought as a good Sullivan would fight – no quit in him! But medical science had done its best. Oh yes, he gave a side glance at Fr. Theodore for a possible reprieve, but he gazed more intently on his crucified Lord. He truly believed in Jesus’ infallible promises.
“I go to prepare a place for you so that where I am you also may be” And
“I will raise you up on the last day”
We Passionists take a title at our religious profession of vows. Almost fifty years ago Dan took the title: Daniel of the Holy Family. How much thought and truth in that title – his family: Jesus, Mary and Joseph; his family by blood; his religious family. And so to you, his family of origin: Jerry, Sisters Margaret and Marie (with us in prayer), Catherine, Dan, Sharon, Patti, Roy, and Maureen and to all your families – the Clan Sullivan, please accept our Passionist deep thanks for the gift of Dan. We Passionists will miss him sorely. And may all of us strive to know the wisdom of God and to do his will; may we know Christ and him crucified and risen; and may we always yearn as a Eucharistic family to be at home one day in the presence of our God, our Lord Jesus, our Blessed Mother, and all our loved ones.
Dan of the Holy Family rest in peace.
Fr. Timothy Fitzgerald, C.P.
March 8, 2011
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